A Comforting Dream

A couple of mornings ago, I had a dream. Nothing unusual about that. I dream all the time and remember parts of them. Heck, I sometimes have serial dreams, like the Twilight Zone episode “Perchance to Dream.” Poor Edward Hall’s dream continues each night, each one taking him closer to his death, and then it does. That is off topic, but it popped into my mind. Mine are never terrorizing, and sometimes they are just nonsensical.

The one I am really writing about is different.

For context, I once made my wife promise she would not die before me. I know she cannot control that, it’s just my preference to go first. In this dream, it was like God was there. It was comforting. Never happened before. I was putting together something for Sunday, the Conversations with God series, and He was helping, but not exactly. It was finished. I woke up thinking all I had to do was copy and paste. It was all in the dream. But there was nothing to copy and paste. I would have to write from memory.

The Bible says older men will dream dreams and younger men will see visions. I qualify as older, seventy-four in September. The dream may have taken place in the not-too-distant future or far into the future. It was about my wife and me being together for eternity, first me, then her. I know the Bible says husbands and wives are together until death, but then you get into the idea of being born again. A couple’s marriage cannot be separated by what men do, but if a couple is born again, why not stay together? Jesus said He would prepare a place for us. Maybe that is what I was thinking of.

Scripture never tells us to treat every dream as prophecy. And this was a dream. I really just want to relate it, not turn it into a Bible lesson or a theological debate. At the end of the dream, I felt a deep sense of peace and comfort. There was a light, not a white light or anything dramatic, just a comforting, warming glow. Off in the distance were two children. They were waving. Crying too, I think, but tears of sadness and tears of joy, maybe both.

It is difficult to put the next part into words because I do not have the right words for a soft, comforting voice that called to them, “Do not be afraid. I am taking Grandma to be with Grandpa, where they will be waiting for you.”

So not every dream has a message, but that does not make the dream meaningless. I told it to my wife, and she said little except that it was just a dream. But to me, it does show that God can use dreams to comfort, steady, or reassure a person. It comforted me.

At the end, off in the distance, the two children were still waving, maybe with tears in their eyes, and God’s beautiful voice called again, “Do not be afraid.”

That is not theology. That is comfort.

It is the heart’s way of saying love is not lost, separation is not the end, reunion is real, and God holds the whole family story.

NATO: Is It Still Relevant? [revised]

[I wrote this three years ago and updated it today based on the Iranian Conflict. I do it because I see no major changes coming.]

The North Atlantic Treaty Organization (NATO) currently has 32 member countries united by the motto “All for one, one for all,” reminiscent of the Three Musketeers. However, this alliance raises concerns: some members are unstable and could provoke attacks that others would be obligated to defend, while certain nations harbor animosity toward the U.S. Recently, Denmark got into a spat with the U.S. over Greenland, with Washington threatening to take control “whether they like it or not,” straining ties within the alliance. Why should the U.S. be bound to defend every member? At the onset of the Cold War, NATO served a purpose, but that era has long since ended.

The principle of collective defense, enshrined in Article 5, which declares an attack on one as an attack on all, sounds noble, but does it hold up? On September 11, 2001, terrorists struck the United States, and while most NATO allies contributed to the response, participation was uneven. The U.S. deployed over 1 million troops, while the rest of NATO sent 300,000, despite Europe’s NATO countries having a combined population nearing 1 billion, dwarfing the U.S. population of roughly 340 million. Some members sent no troops, and Canada cut and ran in 2011; so much for solidarity.

Take Norway, an original NATO signatory, which offered a weak excuse for denying fuel to a U.S. vessel. Or consider Turkey: in 2003, it barred American troops from using its territory as a staging ground for the Iraq invasion. Does anyone honestly believe Turkey would rush to America’s aid in a crisis?

Here’s another twist, contrary to common belief: While the UK and France were in NATO, both were once part of the now-defunct Southeast Asia Treaty Organization (SEATO), yet neither sent troops to Vietnam. The U.S., meanwhile, sacrificed over 58,000 young lives in that conflict. NATO members have only recently started meeting the alliance’s old defense spending target of 2% of GDP, mostly under pressure from ongoing threats like Russia’s war in Ukraine, but that’s yesterday’s benchmark. Now there’s a new push for 3.5% on core defense by 2035 as part of a 5% total on defense and security, and only a handful, like Poland, Lithuania, and Latvia, are hitting that mark. The rest are still effectively freeloading off U.S. military might, with America accounting for over 60% of the alliance’s total spending despite the population imbalance. This imbalance undermines NATO’s strength.

The alliance is increasingly obsolete in a world shaped by new powers like China and other parts of Asia, as well as evolving problems in the Middle East, Africa, and South America. Look at the ongoing mess with Iran in 2026: The U.S. and Israel launched massive strikes starting February 28 under Operation Epic Fury, taking out Supreme Leader Ali Khamenei and hitting nuclear sites, missile facilities, air defenses, and other military targets across Iran to degrade its nuclear and ballistic capabilities and push for regime change. Iran retaliated with waves of missiles and drones targeting U.S. bases, Israel, and Gulf allies, closing parts of the Strait of Hormuz and escalating regionally, including strikes that drew in places like Cyprus and even a missile intercepted over Turkey by NATO air defenses.

NATO? Nowhere to be seen as a collective force. Secretary General Mark Rutte explicitly stated that NATO “is not involved” and there are “absolutely no plans” for the alliance to get dragged in, though he praised the U.S.-Israeli actions for degrading Iran’s threats and noted individual allies might provide enabling support like logistics or intercepts. Sure, NATO systems shot down a stray Iranian missile heading toward Turkey, and the alliance adjusted postures for potential threats, but that’s defensive housekeeping, not stepping up offensively or committing troops when America shoulders the main burden yet again. This hands-off approach in a major Middle East crisis outside Europe’s borders highlights how NATO remains Eurocentric and unwilling (or unable) to mobilize for U.S.-led operations beyond its traditional turf.

Leaving NATO would allow the U.S. to make custom deals with nations rather than sticking to an outdated setup. We would be free to tailor partnerships with individual nations. The current setup risks entangling the U.S. in unwanted conflicts, think of Turkey’s regional disputes or the recent addition of Finland and Sweden, whose proximity to Russia could spark trouble, especially with Moscow’s forces still bogged down in Ukraine.

Exiting NATO would let the U.S. sidestep these time bombs and focus on defending our interests on our own terms. In short, we don’t need it anymore.

Conversations with God VI

God finishes what our love begins.

There are seasons when we can’t see what’s ahead, but we can still trust the One who walks with us and talks with us along the way. This is a conversation about worrying about how we did as parents.

Me:  I think about my parenting sometimes, and I wonder if what I did was enough. I tried. I cared. I meant well. I planted what I could with the strength I had. But I may never get to see the fullness of the seeds I planted, and that leaves me unsure.

God: The work you did was not wasted. Love that costs something is never wasted. The dirt on your hands was not failure. It was evidence of faithfulness. You showed up with a sincere heart, even on the days you felt tired, overwhelmed, or afraid.

Me:  But I don’t know how it will all turn out. I may not live long enough to see the harvest of my work, whether my work was good or bad.

God: Most seeds grow in hidden places. Most roots strengthen long before anything breaks the surface. And many harvests come in seasons the planter never sees. Nothing planted in love disappears. I tend what you began.

Me:  So even if I never see the results, You’re still working.

God: Yes. Your labor was not in vain. Your love continues in ways you cannot measure. And where your strength ended, My care continued. Trust Me with the chapters you won’t be here to read.

This Conversation is not meant as God’s literal speech. It reflects how Scripture portrays how God works for those who trust Him. God finishes what our love begins. It’s a reminder that the work of love is slow, often hidden, and never wasted, and that the God who sees the seeds also tends the harvest.

Conversations with God V

There are seasons when we can’t see what’s ahead, but we can still trust the One who walks with us and talks with us along the way. This is a conversation about worrying about war.

Me:   Everywhere I look, it feels like the world is unraveling. More countries are fighting, and the Middle East seems like it could explode at any moment. I know these things have happened before, but this time it feels closer, heavier. I’m worried about what could happen next.

God: You’re watching the world through a window that shows you danger but not My presence. Wars rise and fall, nations clash, and leaders make choices that shake the earth — but none of it happens outside My sight. Fear grows when you imagine a future without Me in it.

Me:     But it’s hard not to imagine the worst. It feels like everything is fragile.

God:  The world has always been fragile. Your security never came from stability, but from Me. I have carried My people through wars, exiles, invasions, and upheavals far greater than what you see now. I have not changed.

Me:   I just don’t want to see more suffering. And I don’t want to live in fear of what might happen.

God:  Fear looks at what could be. Faith looks at who I am. You cannot control nations or armies, but you can rest in the One who holds them. I do not ask you to predict the future. I ask you to trust that I will be with you in it, whatever it brings.

Me:   So I don’t have to keep imagining every possible outcome?

God:  No. You can release what you cannot carry. Pray for peace. Do good where you are. And remember: the world is not held together by human strength, but by My mercy.

Many people feel anxious when they see multiple conflicts erupting at once, like what is happening right now with Iran. This conversation reminds us that Scripture consistently shows God present in times of war, upheaval, and uncertainty. Fear grows when we imagine the future without God, but faith grows when we remember His character, His history with His people, and His promise to be with us in every circumstance.

Romans 12:18 says the believer wants peace but recognizes it is not always possible because there will be those who refuse it.

This Conversation is not meant as God’s literal speech. It reflects how Scripture portrays God’s steadiness in times of conflict: “Be not afraid,” “I am with you,” “Nation will rise against nation,” and “My peace I give to you.” The Bible never promises a world without war, but it does promise a God who remains faithful, present, and sovereign even when the world feels unsafe.