NATO: Is It Still Relevant? [revised]

[I wrote this three years ago and updated it today based on the Iranian Conflict. I do it because I see no major changes coming.]

The North Atlantic Treaty Organization (NATO) currently has 32 member countries united by the motto “All for one, one for all,” reminiscent of the Three Musketeers. However, this alliance raises concerns: some members are unstable and could provoke attacks that others would be obligated to defend, while certain nations harbor animosity toward the U.S. Recently, Denmark got into a spat with the U.S. over Greenland, with Washington threatening to take control “whether they like it or not,” straining ties within the alliance. Why should the U.S. be bound to defend every member? At the onset of the Cold War, NATO served a purpose, but that era has long since ended.

The principle of collective defense, enshrined in Article 5, which declares an attack on one as an attack on all, sounds noble, but does it hold up? On September 11, 2001, terrorists struck the United States, and while most NATO allies contributed to the response, participation was uneven. The U.S. deployed over 1 million troops, while the rest of NATO sent 300,000, despite Europe’s NATO countries having a combined population nearing 1 billion, dwarfing the U.S. population of roughly 340 million. Some members sent no troops, and Canada cut and ran in 2011; so much for solidarity.

Take Norway, an original NATO signatory, which offered a weak excuse for denying fuel to a U.S. vessel. Or consider Turkey: in 2003, it barred American troops from using its territory as a staging ground for the Iraq invasion. Does anyone honestly believe Turkey would rush to America’s aid in a crisis?

Here’s another twist, contrary to common belief: While the UK and France were in NATO, both were once part of the now-defunct Southeast Asia Treaty Organization (SEATO), yet neither sent troops to Vietnam. The U.S., meanwhile, sacrificed over 58,000 young lives in that conflict. NATO members have only recently started meeting the alliance’s old defense spending target of 2% of GDP, mostly under pressure from ongoing threats like Russia’s war in Ukraine, but that’s yesterday’s benchmark. Now there’s a new push for 3.5% on core defense by 2035 as part of a 5% total on defense and security, and only a handful, like Poland, Lithuania, and Latvia, are hitting that mark. The rest are still effectively freeloading off U.S. military might, with America accounting for over 60% of the alliance’s total spending despite the population imbalance. This imbalance undermines NATO’s strength.

The alliance is increasingly obsolete in a world shaped by new powers like China and other parts of Asia, as well as evolving problems in the Middle East, Africa, and South America. Look at the ongoing mess with Iran in 2026: The U.S. and Israel launched massive strikes starting February 28 under Operation Epic Fury, taking out Supreme Leader Ali Khamenei and hitting nuclear sites, missile facilities, air defenses, and other military targets across Iran to degrade its nuclear and ballistic capabilities and push for regime change. Iran retaliated with waves of missiles and drones targeting U.S. bases, Israel, and Gulf allies, closing parts of the Strait of Hormuz and escalating regionally, including strikes that drew in places like Cyprus and even a missile intercepted over Turkey by NATO air defenses.

NATO? Nowhere to be seen as a collective force. Secretary General Mark Rutte explicitly stated that NATO “is not involved” and there are “absolutely no plans” for the alliance to get dragged in, though he praised the U.S.-Israeli actions for degrading Iran’s threats and noted individual allies might provide enabling support like logistics or intercepts. Sure, NATO systems shot down a stray Iranian missile heading toward Turkey, and the alliance adjusted postures for potential threats, but that’s defensive housekeeping, not stepping up offensively or committing troops when America shoulders the main burden yet again. This hands-off approach in a major Middle East crisis outside Europe’s borders highlights how NATO remains Eurocentric and unwilling (or unable) to mobilize for U.S.-led operations beyond its traditional turf.

Leaving NATO would allow the U.S. to make custom deals with nations rather than sticking to an outdated setup. We would be free to tailor partnerships with individual nations. The current setup risks entangling the U.S. in unwanted conflicts, think of Turkey’s regional disputes or the recent addition of Finland and Sweden, whose proximity to Russia could spark trouble, especially with Moscow’s forces still bogged down in Ukraine.

Exiting NATO would let the U.S. sidestep these time bombs and focus on defending our interests on our own terms. In short, we don’t need it anymore.

Conversations with God VI

God finishes what our love begins.

There are seasons when we can’t see what’s ahead, but we can still trust the One who walks with us and talks with us along the way. This is a conversation about worrying about how we did as parents.

Me:  I think about my parenting sometimes, and I wonder if what I did was enough. I tried. I cared. I meant well. I planted what I could with the strength I had. But I may never get to see the fullness of the seeds I planted, and that leaves me unsure.

God: The work you did was not wasted. Love that costs something is never wasted. The dirt on your hands was not failure. It was evidence of faithfulness. You showed up with a sincere heart, even on the days you felt tired, overwhelmed, or afraid.

Me:  But I don’t know how it will all turn out. I may not live long enough to see the harvest of my work, whether my work was good or bad.

God: Most seeds grow in hidden places. Most roots strengthen long before anything breaks the surface. And many harvests come in seasons the planter never sees. Nothing planted in love disappears. I tend what you began.

Me:  So even if I never see the results, You’re still working.

God: Yes. Your labor was not in vain. Your love continues in ways you cannot measure. And where your strength ended, My care continued. Trust Me with the chapters you won’t be here to read.

This Conversation is not meant as God’s literal speech. It reflects how Scripture portrays how God works for those who trust Him. God finishes what our love begins. It’s a reminder that the work of love is slow, often hidden, and never wasted, and that the God who sees the seeds also tends the harvest.

Conversations with God V

There are seasons when we can’t see what’s ahead, but we can still trust the One who walks with us and talks with us along the way. This is a conversation about worrying about war.

Me:   Everywhere I look, it feels like the world is unraveling. More countries are fighting, and the Middle East seems like it could explode at any moment. I know these things have happened before, but this time it feels closer, heavier. I’m worried about what could happen next.

God: You’re watching the world through a window that shows you danger but not My presence. Wars rise and fall, nations clash, and leaders make choices that shake the earth — but none of it happens outside My sight. Fear grows when you imagine a future without Me in it.

Me:     But it’s hard not to imagine the worst. It feels like everything is fragile.

God:  The world has always been fragile. Your security never came from stability, but from Me. I have carried My people through wars, exiles, invasions, and upheavals far greater than what you see now. I have not changed.

Me:   I just don’t want to see more suffering. And I don’t want to live in fear of what might happen.

God:  Fear looks at what could be. Faith looks at who I am. You cannot control nations or armies, but you can rest in the One who holds them. I do not ask you to predict the future. I ask you to trust that I will be with you in it, whatever it brings.

Me:   So I don’t have to keep imagining every possible outcome?

God:  No. You can release what you cannot carry. Pray for peace. Do good where you are. And remember: the world is not held together by human strength, but by My mercy.

Many people feel anxious when they see multiple conflicts erupting at once, like what is happening right now with Iran. This conversation reminds us that Scripture consistently shows God present in times of war, upheaval, and uncertainty. Fear grows when we imagine the future without God, but faith grows when we remember His character, His history with His people, and His promise to be with us in every circumstance.

Romans 12:18 says the believer wants peace but recognizes it is not always possible because there will be those who refuse it.

This Conversation is not meant as God’s literal speech. It reflects how Scripture portrays God’s steadiness in times of conflict: “Be not afraid,” “I am with you,” “Nation will rise against nation,” and “My peace I give to you.” The Bible never promises a world without war, but it does promise a God who remains faithful, present, and sovereign even when the world feels unsafe.

Open Letter to Class of ’71

[Note: Not long ago, on social media, I told people to challenge comments, live or in writing, and fight back against the Left relentlessly.

We have a school class page on Meta. It’s non-political, but it gets violated, yet no one speaks up. A guy named Gary did by posting the attachment, said it was a great writing, and was condescending to those commenting. The comments were weak, though.

Here’s my response. Everything is now deleted. Fight these people.]

Dear Class of ’71 folks,

This page has stayed drama-free for years because we’ve kept politics out. Period. No left-wing screeds, no right-wing memes—just old photos, reunion plans, stories about friends we lost touch with, and those football games we barely remember winning (or the epic losses that still sting).

The vicious rant Gary posted—calling Trump a “festering carcass,” “prize hog,” “Klansman,” “back-alley creep,” etc.—didn’t just cross the line; it torched it. It’s not “clever writing” or some poetic call for unity (hilariously ironic given Gary’s half-hearted “sorry… we all need to COME TOGETHER!” non-apology). It’s a hateful, personal smear that directly insults anyone here who voted for Trump, supports him, or simply doesn’t buy into that level of venom. And let’s be real: plenty in this class voted for him—some for Harris, some third-party, some sat it out. Posting this garbage here isn’t innocent sharing; it’s a deliberate gut-punch to half (or more) of your own classmates, from an outsider who’s not even Crestwood ’71.

Gary, you dropped this bomb, apologized weakly, then kept escalating instead of deleting it like people asked. That hypocrisy is glaring—you claim to want unity while shoving extreme partisan rage into a nostalgia group. The author? Oliver Kornetzke, a far-left writer from small-town Wisconsin (Kiel area) whose stuff floods socialist outlets like Left-Horizons and Facts for Working People, plus his own Substack ranting about capitalism as a “death cult” and similar fire. This isn’t neutral commentary; it’s hardcore ideological bile from the radical left. It has zero place here—no matter whose side it’s on.

If you have any respect for your wife’s class, her explicit statement that it doesn’t belong, the dozens who’ve asked you to stop, and basic decency toward people you’ve never even met in person—remove it now. Stop with the “but it was well-written” excuses. This isn’t literature class; it’s a reunion page for folks in their 70s who want memories, not culture-war poison.

Save the political napalm for groups that crave it. This space is for Crestwood laughs, grandkid pics, teacher horror stories, reunion ideas—not imported hate from non-members.

Let’s reclaim what this group is actually for: catching up after 50+ years without the drama. Who’s got fresh photos from the last reunion? Grandkid sports wins? Ideas for next get-together? Drop ’em here.

Thanks (and let’s move on)
LAT

Ten Golden Rules for a “Good” Divorce

The list is attributed to Dr. Constance Ahrons although she did not write the list of as shown. The titles in caps, the main rule statements, can be almost taken directly from her work 15 Golden Rules for Achieving a Good Divorce. The explanatory text beneath each one was added by me for easier reading and because I don’t 100 per cent agree with her. My notes are based on over 40 years of experience as a divorce lawyer.

1. ACCEPT THAT ALL-OUT WAR IS NOT INEVITABLE.

In fact, sometimes the opposite is true but either way, it is destructive. Mediation and Collaborative Divorce are two choices that aim to reduce anger between divorcing spouses. I don’t care for either, but that’s just a thing on my part.

2. STAY IN CHARGE OF YOUR DIVORCE. Remember, this is your divorce, not your lawyers. I always told my clients I was their employee. As long as they ask me to do nothing unethical, they were in charge.

3. SLOW DOWN THE PROCESS. Although adults often want to move on quickly, remember that children need time to adjust.

4. ACCEPT THAT YOUR CHILD NEEDS–AND HAS A RIGHT–TO BOTH PARENTS. Remember your children’s needs even though you’re angry with your spouse.

5. COOPERATE WITH YOUR EX FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILDREN. It’s one of the best gifts you can give your kids. Ongoing conflict between parents increases children’s distress. And don’t use “ex” when referring to your former spouse. It’s a personal thing I hate; use former spouse.

6. DON’T BADMOUTH YOUR EX IN FRONT OF THE CHILDREN. When you badmouth your ex to the kids, you are telling your kids that the part of them that is like their other parent is bad, too. It is bad for their self-esteem. At some point, some children will turn against the parent doing it.

7. DIVORCE IS NOT THE END OF THE FAMILY. It’s important to your children’s well-being that they feel they still have a family. Help them understand that the divorce means that they are now a dual-household family. You and your spouse divorced each other; you did not divorce your children.

8. RECOGNIZE THAT COMPROMISE IS ALWAYS NECESSARY. This is key to helping to reduce your anger. Also know it’s not always possible. Just make sure you determine it, not your attorney, after discussion.

9. LET YOURSELF FACE AND GRIEVE YOUR LOSSES. One of the big losses is the loss of future dreams. Just beneath your anger is sadness over the losses of those special things you might have hoped for in your future. If there are no children, consider the equivalent of death. Unless you live in a small town, when you leave the courthouse the final time, it’s unlikely you’ll see each other again.

10. LET THE ANGER GO—AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Holding on to hostility and anger is self-destructive. It keeps you stuck in the past and keeps you from finding new joys in life.

[Note] The Good Divorce and the official 15 Golden Rules for Achieving a Good Divorce handout is available as a free PDF on constanceahrons.com, or here: A ROAD MAP FOR PARENTS WHO WANT A GOOD DIVORCE